Bringing up the topic of homecare with an aging parent can be a tough conversation—one many of us avoid until it’s too late. It’s emotional. It’s delicate. And it often comes with resistance.
But here’s the truth: when handled with empathy and respect, that conversation can be the turning point that improves everyone’s quality of life—including yours.
At Luba Homecare and Healthcare Services Inc., we’ve guided many families through this moment, helping them approach it with confidence and compassion. Here’s how you can do the same:
1. Start Early—Don’t Wait for a Crisis
Don’t wait until your parent has a bad fall or ends up in the hospital. The earlier you begin the conversation, the better chance you have to plan together rather than react under pressure.
Try: “I want to make sure we’re both prepared for the future—just in case.”
2. Lead with Empathy, Not Authority
Your parent may already sense their independence is slipping—and that alone can feel scary or embarrassing. Approach the topic from a place of concern, not control.
Say: “I’ve noticed a few things lately, and I just want to make sure you’re okay and getting the support you need.”
3. Focus on Their Independence, Not Their Limitations
The goal of homecare isn’t to take over their life—it’s to empower them to live more safely, comfortably, and independently at home.
Emphasize: “Having someone around for just a few hours a day could help you do more of what you love, not less.”
4. Listen More Than You Speak
Let your parent express how they feel. Are they afraid of losing control? Worried about being a burden? Nervous about strangers in the home? Validate their concerns.
Say: “I get it. This is a big change, and it’s okay to feel unsure about it.”
5. Offer Options—Don’t Issue Ultimatums
Instead of saying, “We need to get you help,” give them choices. Include them in the decision-making process so they feel respected and heard.
Try: “Would you feel more comfortable with someone coming once a week to start, just to help with groceries or light cleaning?”
6. Use Real-Life Examples
If someone they know is already receiving homecare and thriving, bring that up. Personal stories and relatable examples help ease fear and stigma.
Say: “Remember Aunt Sylvia? She was nervous at first, but now she loves having her caregiver around—it’s made such a difference for her.”
7. Invite a Professional to the Conversation
Sometimes, it helps to have an expert explain how homecare works and answer any questions. At Luba Homecare, we’re happy to meet with families and provide clear, pressure-free guidance.
You’re Not Alone—We’re Here to Help
Talking about homecare might feel uncomfortable now, but it could be the most loving act of protection and respect you ever offer your parent.
Let us walk with you through the journey.
Because at Luba Homecare and Healthcare Services Inc., we believe in care that honors dignity, family, and independence.
Let’s Talk About What Comes Next
Reach out today for a free consultation or family care meeting.
Email: info@lubahealth.com
Website: www.lubahealth.com
Serving Winnipeg, Manitoba, and surrounding areas.
